Here are some prescriptions for the life you always wanted to live.
TECHNIQUES SO YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF.
- Change one of your faults.
- Don't harbor a grudge.
- Write three things you love about yourself.
- Quiet your mind before starting your day (think meditation or mindfulness).
- Release the past and appreciate the present.
Techniques to help you seek meaning and purpose to have a happy life.
- Practice a random act of kindness every day.
- Make a ten-point list of what's really important to you.
- Create a new tradition with your family.
- Write a mission statement for your life.
- Call your favorite charity and offer to help.
Techniques to attract and build happy [romantic] relationships.
- Think of three topics to begin a conversation.
- Take your lover to the best B&B you can afford.
- Write "I love you" on a note and tuck it under your partner's pillow.
- Serve your spouse or partner a candlelight supper in bed.
- Be the kind of friend you want to attract.
Techniques to build a strong and happy family.
- Learn how to be a better parent.
- Lavishly praise behavior you want repeated.
- Schedule a family meeting each week to air grievances.
- Create a multigenerational scrapbook detailing your family history.
- Ask each child to make up a new game for the family to play.
Techniques to take the healthy path to happiness.
- Plant a vegetable garden and eat the produce.
- Avoid exposure to toxic chemicals.
- Give up smoking.
- Do physical exercises in the park on sunny days on weekends.
- Go on vacation every year.
Techniques to put your career path on a happy track.
- Ask a favorite boss or someone you admire to mentor you.
- Think of two reasons you haven't moved forward in your job.
- Create a chart to outline the steps of your career.
- Brainstorm three ways to be happier at work. Then follow-through.
- Safeguard your professional relationships.
Techniques to be happy on the road.
- Taste at least one new food or beverage.
- Help a traveler in distress.
- Buy a bus ticket for a quick local tour.
- Invite a fellow traveler for dinner at a local caf.
- Generously tip hotel, motel, and B&B housekeepers.
Techniques to promote happiness in the workplace.
- Show up on time and prepared for meetings.
- Speak the truth for a whole day--no fibs allowed.
- Single out one coworker each week for praise.
- Think of three tasks someone else could do and delegate them.
- Schedule moments of relaxation during the workday.
- Ask your boss for a special assignment.
- Choose a date to ask for a promotion.
Techniques to lead others to happiness.
- Keep your promises to others.
- Refuse to engage in malicious gossip.
- Inspire a negative person to think positively.
- Ask someone to tell you her purpose in life.
- Tell a story to inspire someone who is feeling down.
Techniques to stay happy when dealing with adversaries.
- Ask competitors or adversaries to name their issues (don't assume).
- Ensure that you understand your adversary's position.
- Find common ground on one or more points.
- Ask for three specific ideas to resolve the conflict.
- Walk away if that's your only option.
Techniques to discover ways to spread happiness in the world.
- Think of three things you can do to make the world a better place.
- Sing, teach a class, or give a talk at a senior citizen center.
- Create a happiness blog on your website.
- Volunteer cook at a children's summer camp.
- Fight for international justice.
- Ask five colleagues to help you sponsor a single mom's education.
- List three things you can do to help a homeless veteran.
- Spread happiness through e-mail.
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